Wedding on the sea

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We received a wedding invitation last week. Whitney was getting married with Steve. Whitney we knew as she is been living in Dumaguete for a long time. Steve we did not and I was also unsure as to he was a Pilipino man or a Westerner. Names here not always help with making this (not so relevant) distinction here. The invitation was for 16:00 on Saturday at the St.Monica resort, 10 km north of Dumaguete. We got ready in time. There was no list where to choose the present from so Katja opted for a hand made glass jar. We wrapped it a bag from the design shop of MOMA which I brought with me last week, just to create a bit of confusion.

We arrived at the resort on time and found that food catering had just been delivered. We were early. Not many guest yet. Just few Australian volunteers and some Peace Corps. The most important thing is that after days of rain the sky turned to blue and sun was shining, starting its descent behind the volcano that towers over Dumaguete to the west.  White paper balloons were decorating the area of the tables for the guests. It ahs been nice to arrive early. Watching at the preparation. The soft sheets of cotton fabric gently blown by the sea breeze, a sense of expectation for what was starting in few minutes. The empty tables, with glasses and plates and the reggae band tuning their instruments.  We met even Steve, whom we though was the best man, fixing the last details with the staff from the resort

The ceremony took place next to the sea on soft green grass. Chairs were lined up on the side of a walkway done with ….. flowers. The pastor waiting in the middle or a round shaped area filled with flowers. He was there waiting with the Bible in his hand. White shirt.  Steve arrived and went next to him, waiting for Whitney. He had a light brown short with Pilipino embroidery, dark trousers, and flip flops. Whitney arrived accompanied by her father. A long white dress, barefoot on the soft grass, a small tattoo on her right foot.

The ceremony started. Whitney and Steve were standing, facing each other at times holding hands. They red from papers they had prepared for each others their demands to become husband and wife ‘…with all my imperfections….?’

The sun was setting. Whitney dog who was supposed to carry the rings but ran away with them. they chased him around for few minute and got hold of the rings. Then music started ‘Don’t worry, be happy’ and the couple walked away on dancing steps.

The party then started with an aperitif and then buffet of Pilipino food.  During the party I met two Italian living here in Dumaguete: Francesco and Oliviero. Discovered that we are four Italian residents here, enough to have some more aperitif on Rizal Boulevard of Dumaguete. There was nice music played by the band. The girls had a swim in the pool and the night was clear and warm.

Cappuccino at Hong Kong airport

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Long connecting time in Hong Kong between the flight from Helsinki and the one to Cebu. Had a shower in the pay-per-visit lounge and slept for four hours in their capsule rooms.

Found an Illy caffe which is good to start the day with a nice cappuccino Italian style.

I sit at one of these small round bar tables which you would find outside a bar in Italy. One big difference is that I am not surrounded by buildings dating back to the middle age middle age. A second big difference is that I can take the cappuccino at the bar and bring it  with me at the table for the same price (2€). In Italy there is the bar (al bancone) official price and the table price where it is possible to charge whatever.

Taste the creamy foam with the spoon. Breaking the leave which is designed on it. The first sip of coffee. The nice cup. No sugar for me.

Two pilots are sitting on a table nearby. One is Asian and had two golden strips on his shirt. The other is a Westerner, maybe Australian or  maybe British. He has three golden strips so he must be the commander.  He has a Apple PC open on the desk and is trying to make a phone call with a mobile. The Asian pilot looks a bit bored. they both had cappuccino as well.  The call goes through: ‘Hi, what’s up?’. ‘Yes, I am near the gate 27 having a coffee. How about yesterday night? Where did you go?’. He listen for few seconds. ‘I got to go now, we have to walk about a kilometer to the flight. Yes, I will be in Shanghai ….. Not much more flying this week. Bye’.

I think that listening to other conversation is not polite, isn’t it? But I find that when i am jet legged my senses are much more alert than usual.

The call finishes. He closes the laptop. They stand up and leave. I think about these pilots. They fly almost every day. Moving so many people around. Sitting in their deck with hundreds of lights to be checked, screens, levels, security procedures. How do they do they go through a blue period? How do they manage with the jet leg?

I tell to myself that it is better not to think about these things and the same moment I think this I remember the sunrise this morning when we were way above China on our way to Hong Kong. Black night one second, broken all of a sudden by the dim line of the horizon in yellow, orange, green, blue and the first ray of sun to hit our plane.  Up there one may be able to forget for a moment his or her blue period. It is just that moment when the sun rises that matters.

The life of others

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In London. Only few days ago I was in NYC. High up at the 86th floor of the observatory of the Empire State Building. Looking down I already described in an earlier blog how the people walking down on the street were small. Just dots moving in slow motion crossing streets and avenues. Stopping at a red light. Passing zebra crossing. Stopping at shops and thinking whether or go in and buy that nice desk lamp.

NY labyrinth of streets  is relative simple. All parallel streets going from East to West, crossing long avenues which cut Manhattan from North to South.  People in the form of tiny dots walking along this labyrinth. Here is one crossing the street. Another turning around the corner. There is another who stops in front of what seems a shop seemingly waiting for somebody else.

All these dots have a clear path behind them. A path which led them up to this point in this very moment and which creates and intricate webs of people lives.  These lines intersect in many points. Sometime casually. Coming from different directions and meeting at a corner. Stopping for a moment and deciding to continue along the same way. Other times they just cross for an instant. These lines are others people lives and it is great to see this intricate web from above. 

In few minutes I will be walking down there. Creating my line and continuing it along the way. Maybe 6th Avenue, maybe 43th Street. Who knows. I still have to decide from up here which direction I will take.

Stopping at Tiffany’s

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Jet leg is annoying but allows also for surprises.  Leave at 6:00 from the Gershwin hotel. Turn the corner of 27th St and follow the 5th Av. up towards Central Park. It is still dark and it is easy to cross the street. Still little traffic. Some 24hrs coffee shop have lights on and no customer. Just very tired waiters. Continue up. Still looking up to high rising. Streets are also been clean with water hoses. I jump over them. 5th Av climbs a little bit up. I can now see the trees of Central Park. Still 4-5 blocks to go. Looked at my watch. I have been running just 14 minutes. Daylight is very close now. Red traffic light and traffic coming form the left. So I stop at this corner which looks strangely familiar. I look at the building on my right. Thick wall with small windows closed by a thin small golden curtain. I looked at the two windows. It is a shop but has not a large window. There there is the entrance door. Very thick metal. I Look up on top of it I read T-I-F-F-A- N-Y-‘-S. This is Tyffani’s corner. The doors are closed. The windows have just a dim light. Day light almost there. I can see a yellow cab parking just in front to the door and Audrey Hebburn appearing with a elegant dress, a cup of coffee in her left hand and a paper back with two bagels in her right hand.  She walk to the window. She looks tired but wants to have this first moment of the day for herself. She walks slowly. Sip the coffee and gives a couple of small bites to the bagles. She turns around the corner and throws the paper bag in the dust bin and walks away slowly and tired.
Traffic light turns green. I cross the street and head to Central Park at sunrise.

The tower and the shell

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Today for lunch up to the 86th floor of the Empire State Building. 2 min to climb 80 floors and then another slower elevators for the last 6. It was warm and not too windy on the observatory and the view stunning. High rise, low rise, avenues, streets, yellow cabs like yellow ants crawling in search of food. People like dots crossing zebra crossings. A Lego town just at the feet of the tower.

Walking to look for a place to have lunch and seeing what only this town maybe can offer. Two Muslim workers who lay on the pavement at the side of the of the walkway their mosque prayer map, put on top of it a kind of compass that indicates where the Mecca is and go on their knees with hands talking up to the sky. Closed eyes reciting the Koran while life flows around them.  Yellow cabs, people on mobile phones, a police woman regulating the traffic.

Then the shell of the Guggenheim museum. Like the interior of a Nautilus shell and which climbs gently in the shape of a bowl. I walked in. Looked up to the spiral structure of the interiors and the paintings of the Kandinsky exhibition all disappeared. I walked slowly up, following the gentle slope. Hands behind my back. Glancing at the colorful painting hanging on the white wall but did not stop much. I was rather soaking the soft noise of people talking to each other about the paintings. Asking questions to the museum staff. People of all ages probably unsure as to whether focus on the museum architecture of the art within it. I walked up. Turned and walked down. At one point the large painting called ‘Several Circles’. Black background and several colorful circles of various sizes that resemble a complex web of planets. Colors that merges and take a different tone when the circles overlap.  A mother is taking with her son who may be 6-7 years old about the paining and is asking him what he thinks. He likes it and described the various colors he can see. I feel a pang inside my chest, I wish I had Olga and Venla here with me in this moment.

Central Park is not far

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Woke up again at 5:30. So I waited a bit and put then my running gear. Wanted to run up to Central Aprk. It is very easy to find direction.  So out from hotel, pass 6th Av, reach 7th Av passing by the Empire State Building. Then down to the park, passing the lights of Times Square. Seems a bit like being in one of the movies where I have seen all these places. But no, this is for real. It is me running along these streets. Looking up at the top of the skyscrapers.

I reached the park where daylight broke. So many people where already there either running or cycling. Nobody knew me, I did not know anybody. Just people together running each one with the mind in own thoughts. I followed a path where people were running and reached a lake. Not sure it is the main one or one of many. Took the jogging paths that in 20 easy minutes runs around it. Soft surface. At some points body guards and a group Latin American people in jogging gears, among them catching up his breath after a run, Evo Morales the Bolivian President who is here for the General UN Assembly.

I continue the path. Look at my left towards the lake. On the other side of the lake, the green of trees and above them the old high rising built maybe 100 years ago. the sun rising west, painting the windows in gold. Amazing. I slowed down in a kind of emotional state. It is not easy to run and at the same time feel tears and emotions.

So I kept running. Reached the entrance. Climbed up 6th Av. Tomorrow again, Central Park after all is not far.

New York City 03:53 am

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New York City. The Big Apple. Manhattan. Its skyscrapers, Its rectangular intersections between streets and avenues. Yesterday evening after checking in at the hotel I walked from 27th East down to the the New York University campus area. Walked in a kind of trance due to the jet lag trying to keep up to go to bed late enough. And yet, I first woke up just after midnight after dreaming of my brother and his son Antonio. I got out of bed went to the toilet and when I cam back into the room the wide open eyes of Picasso were looking at me from the huge poster which hangs on the wall behind the bed in this small and old hotel room at the Gershwin.

I sat on the right side of the bed. My feet resting on the wooden floor. Took a sip of water from a plastic bottle. Checked the time as I was unsure about it. Went back to sleep. Now up again and it is almost 04:00 am. Meaning that I will go for a run at around 06:00.

Yesterday walk was nice, especially in the university area. Young people coming from the departments, exiting the library and sport centers. Some talking in mobile phones: ‘I told you to I would be late…’, said a guy.  ‘I am no longer talking to him because ….’, spoke a girls. One black guy passed with a mountain bike at crazy speed singing as loud as he could. In Union Square two students set up a session with drums and saxophone which was quite impressive. A guard looks bored outside a fancy apartment house but says hi to me moving slightly his head up. Two girls are dressed in roman clothes and are either going to a  party or a performance. I opt for the first.  A homeless sits on the pavement, grabbing his knees into his harms, he is barefoot, next to his feet a small cartoon box with a handwritten message I cannot read.

This city breathes life in all its sides. The happy, the poor, the glittering, the dull, the sad, the aching, the worried, the stressed, the love, the pain.

I walk past a university dormitory. Maybe 6-7 floors high. I look up at the widows. Most have the light on, some don’t. A girls is typing at a computer. In another two guys are drinking  a beer form a can.  Another window high up has a woman mannequin wearing a very sexy and pants and the obvious red light coming from behind in the room. I used to look at similar windows in Glasgow at our dormitory. I liked to stop in the evening when coming back from the university in the evening. Looks at the lights on in those one rooms and imagine the life of the students within them. Some of them I knew, other I did not. It all looked more like a huge bee nest with all its boxes where honey was stored.

This was the New York City I saw yesterday evening walking randomly. Listening to the amazing number of languages that people talk in its streets.

It is not 04:17, I should maybe try to get some light sleep before my morning run.

Sixth Stop: Lappeenranta. All is relative.

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I am reminded how east we are by a sign I see while jogging around the two of Lappeenranta where we are visiting two friends and their daughter: 208 km to Pietari (St. Petersburg).

This is the last stop before returning to our cottage. We stay at a very nice and cosy light blue wooden house. Small (but not too small) garden. An apple tree. which is dropping its fruits on the green and wet grass.  A storage and the sauna are in a separate building also painted in light blue.

Our friends have worked a lot to make this place what it is today. But things change and they never stay the same. They have decided to move. The house is at the border of a nice area with many wooden houses similar to theirs. The problem is that being at the border, next to it runs a road which leads the traffic from Lappeenranta out of the town. On the other side of the road there are the tracks of the nearby railway station. The traffic both of cars and of passengers and freight trains (especially to Russia) has increased in recent years. So it is a bit noisy here.

We talk about it and the first thing that comes to my mind is the UN apartments on Ki Ma in Ha Noi. This was the place we first moved in before finding the Swedish Camp.  We lived at the fifth floor of this Bulgarian donated ugly block house. High enough to hear the uninterrupted of traffic from Ki Ma on of the main arteries of Ha Noi. From five in the morning to one at night an uninterrupted flow of motorbikes, cars and few underused red and yellow busses. As here in Lappeenranta it had peak hours: at eight in the morning the rush hour into town where you had to avoid motorbikes occupying the pedestrian paths on the side of the road. Traffic completely stacked in four directions at the junction towards the nearby lake. The same again at five in the afternoon.

Here in Lappeenranta is another story. Nothing comparable. Kind of empty street at all times. However while we talk about all this and we joke about Ha Noi I am reminded that all is relative. Probably if we would live here even after a time in Ha Noi we would slowly get used to the new noises, the new pace, the sound of the house and the sounds around it. After some time we would notice the cars, the freight train transporting iron at eleven in the night. Initially finding it reassuringly quiet and with time discovering that all these noises are too much and deciding to move. Who knows. All is relative, after all.

Seventh Stop: back in Hyväsalmi holding the breath for few seconds.

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We are back in our cottage. Nice to be back for the last stage of our Finnish holiday. In a week or so I will be in Italy. Then London. So we are back in our Finnish home for a week.

I wrote a lot about me in these blogs. I also thought a lot about me during this trip. Had time with girls of course. I have been a good (and very generous in terms of money :-)) customer of Olga’s restaurant and shopping games. Red book for the girls. Did not think too much about work.

I thought about the last couple of summers.  2007: PhD defence, karonka, and 40th birthday on the same day, visit by my friends Paolo and Maurizio at the cottage, visit of my mother, only few days for us here in Hyväsalmi. 2008: short break before starting work in London with the nervous excitement of a new start and thoughts on our location or relocation to UK, ODI, challenge, work to do at the cottage. This years things are more settled. The mökki has now a well, the wooden roof has tar, the chimney has a hat, there is a nice wooden terrace and a nice laituri on the water.

We live in the Philippines and will be there for some time. I like my work. Katja likes hers. The girls seems happy with living there and the school and are also happy to be here. I will go back to Cremona after three and half years and look forward to see my nephew Antonio.

So time to enjoy these late summer or early autumn sunsets. Listen to the West wind. Look up in the trees for the tik-tik-tick noise of a woodpecker preparing his nest for the winter. Enjoy the cold air of the dark night on the skin after sauna and look at the stars which here are incredibly bright as there are no towns nearby.

Time to fill the lungs with clean air. Hold the breath for few seconds. Then let it go and be in the moment. The past and the future at a distance, as Tove Jansson once wrote.

Fourth Stop: Grand Hotel Tammer 21:56

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We are back in Tampere. Is this my alma mater? Where I got my PhD. Or does the alma mater remains the university where one get his or her first degree? (in my case Parma). Do not know and in truth do not care much. It is just nice to be back here.

It is 21:56. Outside is almost dark. A wind coming from the west makes the scattered clouds fly fast over the town. A bright full moon appears and disappears behind the moving clouds. We can watch this from the corner room at the seventh floor of the Grand Hotel Tammer.Below us the canal and dam that controls the water flow between the two huge lakes which are at different levels and define the shape of two sides of the town. This difference in the height above the sea level of these tow lake has made the fortune of the town and as often in these cases a Scots was first to spot the opportunity. Finlayson built on the little straits that separates these two lakes a factory and became known for the quality of its cotton fabric. This may have happened 100 years ago and the fabric is still sold today. Today as yesterday the water flow provides power.

Olga and Venla are enjoying the town. The Pikku Kakkonen play ground right in front of the hotel of course help and they have spent at least three hours today on the red wooden train, playing with sand, taking care of their dolls. Olga has memory of our time here when she was two and a half and that is quite amazing. The memories are coming back to her as we walked this evening across the main road to go for sauna to the Hotel Ilves where we stayed for my thesis defence. It is nice to see that she has some connection to Tampere. For Venla, although she was borne here, all is new.

Both are doing very well in this short trip in Southern Finland. They stand the hours in the car (though they require good supply of pulla or karialian pirakka and fruit juice).

Tonight I was watching at the town from our window.Quiet end-of-summer-beginning-of-autumn. Cold wind. Few cars and people in the streets as is is Wednesday. Streets lights providing lights for empty streets. Apartments with lights on. Life flowing in those apartments. the fire brigade station new the hotel with its strange tower which is a copy of a mosque minaret in funki style (as they called here in Finland). It reminds of some Klimt painting frames or the Glaswegian McIntosh. The raw of widows of the firemen on duity. Some light on. few off. Fire men at home. Quiet feeling while the clouds reflects the bright light of the full moon and fly fats over this town.